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“Anytime anybody sees a child that looks forlorn, lost, not taken care of — spread your arms, scoop them up, ask questions later, but love them first.”   — Mauri Melander Friestleben 

Check out "Love Them First"

Find out about the principal making a difference here:  https://www.lovethemfirst.com

The following is the director's statement from that site:

"We first met Lucy Laney principal Mauri Melander Friestleben through our work as daily news journalists on assignment, covering two violent incidents outside the doors of her school – an officer involved shooting of a black man, and several months later, a drive-by shooting that took the life of a two-year-old child.

We instantly recognized the power in her voice as a fierce protector, disruptor and overcomer. Friestleben didn't try to diminish her students' fears. She spoke with a surprising honesty and unrelenting love that stayed with us. We sensed as a principal, she carried her own story into that school every morning, and when we followed our instincts as storytellers, the "Love Them First" documentary was born.

Before we began filming, we set an intent to listen and to understand. As white, privileged journalists, we knew there would be deserved skepticism of our motivations. Are we here to pity? Are we here to sensationalize? To get a story and disappear? The school and students had long suffered under the unforgiving headline of "failing" school in the epicenter of a high-poverty neighborhood.

Our project first began tentatively as series of stories on KARE 11 News, a test of trust for Friestleben, Lucy Laney staff and the Minneapolis school district. We slowly gained unprecedented access to the daily life at the school, diving into issues like dialect and discipline, or sharing light-hearted moments, like the school's annual basketball game or picture day.

Over the course of one year, several dozens news stories unfolded into our documentary film, as Ben shot hundreds of hours of footage. Each day he carefully lowered his cameras down to meet the eyes of the children brave enough to talk with a stranger, hoping to lift their voices up to the larger world.

When Lindsey crafted the interviews and footage into a storyline, she abandoned her usual "voiceover" as a reporter, allowing the children's voices and Friestleben's own narration to become the vessel for the victories and setbacks inside the school.

As first-time documentarians, our film is now complete, but the real work has hardly begun. Minnesota struggles with the largest achievement gap between black and white students in the nation, but every community has a failing school. The racial education gap is now a defining 21st century challenge as whites make up less than half of America's K-12 students.

We hope by opening up a window into a world few often see, our audience will think more critically about the inequities and injustices students of color contend with in classrooms every day, especially when it comes to standardized testing, the nation's yardstick for measuring underperforming schools.

Friestleben once told us, "If you are in this work, you are in it to change the world."

Whether the film leaves you with crucial questions, a new perspective, or the inspiration to volunteer, tutor or teach, our greatest desire is that Love Them First leaves a mark on your heart.

We hope you will see Lucy Laney's children-- or the kids in a school across your town—as all of our children, who deserve the same opportunities to learn, no matter the zip code, test score or lasting label."

Ben Garvin and Lindsey Seavert